I found the recipe in a small brochure from Kraft Foods that came along with one of my Taste of Home magazine subscriptions. As you may recall, I attempted to make this pie once before, with disastrous results. I went back and got more ingredients (the proper ones this time), and just before Christmas, it was time to try again.
I was so focused on getting everything right that I don’t have all the step by step pictures that I’d like to have, so I’ll share what I’ve got! First you’ll need to get all the ingredients together.
1/4 cup plus 2 Tbsp. caramel ice cream topping, divided
1 graham cracker pie crust
1/2 cup plus 2 Tbsp. pecan pieces, divided
1 cup cold milk
2 pkg. (4-serving size each) JELL-O Vanilla Flavor Instant Pudding & Pie Filling
1 cup canned pumpkin
1 tsp. ground cinnamon
1/2 tsp. ground nutmeg
1 tub (8 oz.) COOL WHIP Whipped Topping, thawed, divided
Now, if you’re like me, you’re going to skip the nutmeg and use just the cinnamon so you can go ahead and cross that off. (Thanks mom!) At this point, I’d like to remind you to check and make sure your pudding is INSTANT and not cook and serve. Cook and serve simply will not work. Trust me, I know.
First, take your pie crust, and pour in 1/4 cup of the caramel topping. Make sure your caramel spreads out in the bottom of the crust. Then you want to sprinkle 1/2 cup of pecan pieces onto the caramel.

Set that aside for a minute, and mix together your pie filling. Take the milk, pudding, pumpkin, cinnamon, and 1 1/2 cups of the whipped topping and mix it all together. When all the ingredients are well mixed and incorporated, you’re ready to spoon it into your prepared pie crust.

If you’re like me, you’ll play with smoothing the top for awhile…

You can see some of the caramel peeking out the sides of the pie… this may be due to the fact that I accidentally used 1/3 cup of caramel in the bottom instead of 1/4. Come on, after how badly I botched the first one, did you really think the second would go off without a hitch?
Anyways. Then your pie needs to set in the fridge for about an hour. When it’s ready, bring it out and spread the rest of your cool whip on top of the pie filling. Feel free to play with the design on the cool whip as well. 
Finally, use a fork (or a spoon, or your fingers) to drizzle caramel topping over the top of your pie. Sprinkle with pecans, and admire. And get made fun of by your mother for your precise placement of pecans for picture taking purposes.

And enjoy!!

It was a very good pie, and everyone enjoyed it, but it was almost TOO rich. I don’t think anyone finished their piece of pie. I don’t know how much of this can be contributed to the richness of the pie, and how much should be contributed to the fact that we’d just finished stuffing ourselves with beef and noodles and mashed potatoes and scalloped corn and my favorite salad, and various other deliciousness.